We’ve all heard the saying “no news is good news” but often, particularly at times of uncertainty when you know change is brewing, this is not the case. In fact, not only is no news not good news, frequently, it is even WORSE than bad news, because it adds to uncertainty and anxiety. In a vacuum of information, people fill the space with their own stories and conclusions based on fear, rumour and innuendo. Often those stories are far worse than what is actually coming.
According to Hilary Scarlett, author of Neuroscience for Organisational Change, the brain finds uncertainty so uncomfortable that we are better at dealing with bad news than not knowing what the future holds. In fact, bad news is often better than no news.
At times of uncertainty, it’s important that leaders share as much truth as they can – even if it’s not what people want to hear – because this builds trust. As David Rock and Christy Pruitt-Haynes wrote in Harvard Business Review: “Research shows that getting an answer you don’t like is better than not receiving one at all. Any way you can provide useful information, even if it seems small, can increase people’s sense of clarity, if not certainty.”
UNCERTAINTY CALLS FOR TRANSPARENCY
The words “honesty” and “transparency” are often used interchangeably. But there’s a difference between the two and in times of uncertainty, transparency is what people need.
Honesty is telling the truth as you perceive it and refusing to lie or be deceptive – crucially – when you’re asked. Transparency means easy to see through. If you are being transparent, you are sharing the truth that you believe needs to be known because it’s the right thing to do. You’re not waiting to be asked, you are being open in your communication and proactively sharing.
In that awkward period when you know change or a big decision is coming but you don’t know exactly what it looks like yet, transparency is a powerful trust and respect-building tool.
A FOUR-PART FRAMEWORK FOR COMMUNICATION
So how do you communicate with transparency to your team when things are uncertain? Here is a simple four-step framework to help you:
The facts. Share as much truth as you can.
The action you’re taking.
Don’t leave things unsaid. Address the elephant in the room and verbalise the unknowns.
Give people a sense of certainty amidst the uncertainty by making it clear that you will communicate any new information as soon you have it.
SHARE AS MUCH TRUTH AS YOU CAN AND BE HONEST ABOUT WHAT YOU CAN’T
When communicating during change and uncertainty, most leaders stop after the second point in the framework. They share what they know and what they’re doing about it but leave the unknowns unspoken, rationalising that if they don’t know the answer, they shouldn’t say anything. This is a mistake. Why? Because you can bet that the things left unspoken by the leaders are what everyone else is worried about and talking about. Avoiding the topic breeds suspicion and distrust.
But what if sharing is not allowed? What if you’ve been sworn to secrecy and your people ask questions you can’t answer? Again – the answer is simple, speak the truth. Don’t say “I don’t know,” if you do. This is a sure-fire way to erode trust if your people know or suspect that this is a lie and you’re simply not telling them. Instead:
Communicating when things are uncertain and unknown can be challenging but it’s not complicated. Use the four-part framework in this article as a guide and you will reassure your people, build trust and help steer your people through the storm of change to calmer waters.
Leah Mether is a communication and soft skills trainer obsessed with making the people part of leadership and work life easier.
With more than 15 years’ experience working with thousands of clients, and an acclaimed book to her name, Leah knows what it takes to communicate under pressure. Like you, she knows the challenge of conflict, personality clashes, and difficult conversations.
Leah is renowned for her practical, engaging, straight-shooting style. Utilising her Five Cs® model of communication, she helps leaders and teams shift from knowing to doing, and radically improve their effectiveness.